Wednesday, 28 June 2017

He loved an atheist!


“She has just completed her studies in medicines!” exclaimed the pandit. “Belongs to a very respectable family and is a very nice girl but the only problem is, that she is an atheist.”

“Oh! Panditji, bring some better proposals. An atheist! No,” said the old lady who was finding a suitable girl for her son.

Priti had been rejected thrice because of being an atheist. Yet, she would never change.
While she was crying on the terrace that day, her best friend came up to cheer her. 
“Oh! C’mon, it doesn’t even matter that you believe in God or not! A man will love you if he has the capability to see your beauty!” Madan consoled.

“I know that but…..”

“Stop crying, first. And tell me why you don’t believe in God? I realize now that I never bothered to ask you this.”

“I never said this to anybody, Maddy,” Priti sighed.

“Okay, tell me now, “He insisted.

Priti started to narrate what had happened years ago that made her what she is now.
She had been in her second grade when her family had shifted to a new locality. She had the habit of visiting the temple every day. After shifting she started to go to the temple nearby, in the new place. It had only been a few days when Priti experienced something really bad.
As a child, it was fun to ring the temple’s bell loudly after worshipping. When she had somebody with her, they would lift her up to let her ring the bell.

One day, when Priti went to the temple with her friend, she had no elder who could lift her up to reach to the bell. She jumped twice and tried to ring but failed. It was an odd time and there was nobody else in the temple except a man who had been watching her jump. He offered help. She was joyed to ring and requested to lift her up. She noticed that he lifted her frock and touched her private part while holding her.
Priti couldn’t understand what to do and just ran away. What could a small child do for this? What could she understand?
She felt weird about it and didn’t go to the temple for a few days. Nobody noticed that.
 One day while going to the school she saw the same person talking to another man and found out that he was the pandit of that temple.
What a shock it had been to her. How could such a pious person do this? She was unable to get that incident out of her mind.

“You see, how it affected me? I just ended up being an atheist. A person calls himself pious and does such a cheap act! Show the world that you love God and never care about doing sins. Since I was a little girl then, I couldn’t understand all that but now it bothers me. There would have been a few other innocent little girls too! “

Madan was shocked. “People like them ruin the community,” He said with frustration and hugged her.
“Okay, so forget about it now and do what you feel is right.”
There was only silence for a couple of minutes and then Madan spoke up.

“Hey, I love you Pri. Will you marry me?”
Priti was amazed. Both knew each other from their school time and had been really close friends since then. Friendship turned to love, today.
"No family would accept an atheist to be their "daughter-in-law, Maddy," she said.
"I've already spoken to my mother about it. She likes you," he winked.

Love has no religion?  
He proved it true!






Tuesday, 13 June 2017

Chivalry ain't dead !

     A girl or a boy? Doesn't matter! Reading is for everybody, fortunately! 

I was sitting in the balcony yesterday when my neighbour, a 10 year old girl who had just been back from her village; summer vacation family trip. She was with her Mother then, who asked me when would I get married. I replied saying that there was  a lot of time for that to happen and laughed. She said "Oh! Yes, right. Haha!" and left.                                   

                                               The girl stayed with me and started talking. She explained me as to why her mother had asked me that question. It was a custom in their village to get the girls married at an early age. I wasn't surprised at all. It is so common to hear all this in India even in this era, where the world has been so much advanced and broad-minded.
She started speaking about dowry, that how parents of a girl child start to worry about how they would arrange for funds. "Education is of the least importance there, didi. Hanging out with friends and talking to boys isn't for girls there. Life becomes so dull. I just hate to think about it. Churidar is the only type of cloth for girls there. Why such nuisance?"


I wasn't hearing all this for the first time, but listening to a little girl like her was something new; something to be pondered over. 


Why can't the wise men understand, when a little girl can? 


We, the city dwellers just don't face such circumstances and hearing all this is completely different from experiencing the pain that they go through. Imagining our lives in such a way is creepy. Freedom is what a person craves for and rightly deserves but then there in the countryside, the word 'freedom' is itself out of a girl's life. 

Yes, of course there still are concerns in the cities as well like women being harassed, the narrow mindset of some households that keep the girls away from pursuing their higher education, the fear of innocent parents of their children going alone to a new place and maybe many other reasons. Some men are still so conservative that they feel ashamed of their wife working.Shouldn't a female have her own desires? Her own dreams? Her wishes? 

Such men need to 'wash their brains' and understand that gender has nothing to do with the type of work. Be it the household chores or the office work, there is no written law or religion, which states the type of work for a particular gender. Why is there a need to be ashamed of your wife working outside? Why care what the society thinks about? Does the society pay you? Earning is not the job of a man only. If a woman earns, it never gives an impression that the man of the family is a loser unless your thoughts do so.


Oh! Thank God to those few men who understand what a woman deserves. Their concern for the women's community, girl's liberty! No problem with a women working. 


The real men know that, the only difference between a man and a woman are the body parts. 


Saturday, 3 June 2017

Deep Quotes



Wow, how can a love song define a new meaning! 

Mom blushes not only when Dad compliments but when children do it too! Spread happiness! Compliment her for small things! She loves it! Maybe that is what she expects !