Sunday, 14 June 2020

Get a guide, glide out of suicide


In this scenario of unnecessary burden and hypertension, it is natural for any ordinary person to be frustrated. However, innumerable chores and loads of work has become a very huge part of our lives, and we are ought to be aware of this very fact and adapt to the situations of life, no matter what!
We don't remain kids, we gain, we lose, we learn, we succeed, we fail and in the process, we grow up, not only just physically, but emotionally as well. 
Ofcourse we understand that this is all a part of life, but are we able to accept it? Bravery lies in accepting the facts of your own life. Everyone tries to make their life better but only some reach their destination. Some take time, some do it really quick. Some go through many struggles, some lesser. But in the end, what matters is what do you do after reaching your destination, Isn't it?
Hearing about the suicide of one of our favourite actors was a shock to all of us. Nobody knows the reason behind this tragedy but if you check the history, there had been suicidal attempts by many other actors for various financial or personal reasons.
Given his last movie, it's tragic to have him end on this note! But, it's a lesson to be learnt by all of us.
Friends, we all have our own issues. Not everybody is able to tackle all of them. Some of us may have a few friends to share our problems with and who help in times of need. Some don't, and that is the point when we need to stay strong. It requires a lot of courage to face our own problems. It requires a lot of patience to listen to advises and ponder over them. But when you don't have all of those, just talk it out to somebody. Someone who would hear to your problems patiently and somebody who is just a listener, because sometimes we just need an ear to listen, not an advisor. 
Believe me, there will be that one person.
A person in the world who would hear you. If not anybody else, your parents. 
Also friends, try being a friend and staying one. Listen to your friend when he/she is sad. Support them. Make them laugh along.
Maybe you hurt somebody in the past, but it's never too late to be good to a long lost friend. It's always a happy decision. A positive one. 

Also, at this point in time, where we've just been exposed to such a news, we would tend to care about all our closed ones and contact them again. But, when all this settles down, would we still care?
Maybe! We don't know. We would jump into our own lives again and forget about them.
Uncountable posts on social media about 'Talking to a friend' is a nine day wonder probably just like any other problem that arises. So most importantly, remember that your friend may not have a problem today, but make sure you are there for him tomorrow and everyday! 
Somebody has so well quoted: "I would rather listen to your story than attend your funeral!"

Remember, find happiness in the little things you have and start spreading positive vibes because we never know what our neighbour is going through. 


6 comments:

  1. True but it's the fact people should get used to it and so called best friends need to play an key role in it because now people are afraid to share to their parents so it see everything in their friends only

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  3. Hey, Harshal! We read your comment. If you wish to ask any questions or comment, you can also comment by signing as anonymous.

    To address your question, I would like to let you know that life give you options! Talk to your mother and if you feel she wouldn't be able to understand, you have helpline numbers that can help you understand and give solutions. Certain NGOs work for this cause.

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